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When to STFU?

Being engaged and now in the midst of wedding preparation, we are both getting ready mentally and physically for a whole new journey together. At times, unavoidable, there will be misunderstanding and disagreement along the way. From small matters up to really serious matters, it really require ultimate tolerance and understanding to overcome the hiccups. So I learn that at times, it is just better to..simply STFU. 

Only bring up the disagreement/ dissatisfaction when you're REALLY ready, to avoid disappointment or trigger conflict gunshots:


It's never easy to be a woman, what more a married woman. Oh hey, I'm not even married yet. Bleh...
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