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Worst Question

Being a couple for 8.5 years, it has been normal for parents, relatives and friends to ask us,
  • When are you two getting married?
  • Why didn't you go for registration first?
  • What's holding you back from marriage?
Or donate their ultimate "best-in-the-world" judgment for us,
  • This year is tiger year, not good, get married next year? Rabbit year, then get a Dragon boy and a Horse girl?
  • 10-10-10! good day for marriage!
  • 11-11-11! no way you gonna miss this?
  • Doing 2nd degree also can get married one mar!
Or give their cry-me-the-river experience/theories to scare us,
  • You know, getting pregnant after 30's will ends you up with big fat belly and potato body shape. Look at me, you won't want to try...
  • It's D-A-N-G-E-R-O-U-S to get pregnant after 30's, you'll have sooo "little" time left to try! and of cause, aged maternity concerns you know..
  • You better sign the paper quick, you know men are always men, they will sway easily! 1 paper only, just GO and SIGN it!
- G o s h -

We went through questions and statements like these easily.. it's just norm..
But I was really pissed off, totally got out of my mind with this question threw in by Wilson's relative:
  • Wil, when are you getting married? It seems that you have NOT thought of your marriage AT ALL, haven't you?
This is the limit. You can ask when, why, but you made that statement? NO thoughts AT ALL? What is she trying to say? Gosh, this is so outta my mind, I am S O. M A D. She totally disregard my existence by asking so, totally don't give a damn if I would be hurt or not. Hello!!! Marriage is a TWO person thing, and why the hell she asked him in front of me.. without even looking at me? Is he the only person in OUR marriage? I totally can't accept this. Poke my nerves right on the spot.

GRRR..
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ping said…
Hey girl... chill... I thought of this few days ago... Just to share with u... I am planning to get myself a t-shirt for this upcoming CNY with printed words say, "DON'T ASK ME WHEN I M GETTING MARRIED, F**K OFF!!!"
January 24, 2010 at 11:26 PM
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